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Finding Swinger Lifestyle Couples in Omaha

August 24, 2024
by MrPineapple

Are you looking to meet swinger lifestyle couples in Omaha but aren’t sure where to start? Whether you’re new to the lifestyle and feeling a bit overwhelmed, or you’ve been in it for a while and are eager to meet new people, finding couples to connect with can sometimes feel like a daunting task. The fear of rejection or the frustration of being ghosted or flaked on can make the process even more challenging. In this post, we’ll share practical tips and insider advice on how to meet like-minded couples in Omaha, so you can dive into this exciting world with confidence and start making meaningful connections right away.

Find Omaha Swingers Online

If you’ve read any of our previous posts, you know that we’re big fans of starting your search for other swingers online. It’s an easy way for you and your partner to look for other couples—or maybe even singles—from the comfort of your own home. For some great tips, check out our post “Meeting Swinging Lifestyle Couples in Nebraska,” which offers advice on creating profiles and getting ready to meet others in this amazing lifestyle.

Spend Some Time at a Local Omaha Swinger Hangout

It’s no secret that in Omaha, there’s a bar where many in the swinger lifestyle gather. This place has a low-key atmosphere and often hosts live music and some very nice adult entertainment. It’s well worth checking out The American Dream. Opinions may vary on whether it’s the best spot, but history shows it’s Omaha’s longest-running lifestyle-friendly venue. Couples from all over Nebraska come here to meet others. While the bar itself isn’t a swingers bar, it’s run by someone who organizes large hotel takeovers. So if you find a couple you want to meet for the first time, we highly recommend taking them to The American Dream Bar.

Find Local Swingers Gatherings in Omaha

As of the time of this article, we highly recommend you check back here often for updates on Omaha Swingers Events and keep an eye on our friends over at Keep It Swinger Simple. They host a majority of their swinger lifestyle events in the Omaha metro area. Of course, you can always look online for other events as well. There are many other smaller swinger lifestyle groups in and around Omaha, so keep your eyes on sites like Fetlife or Kasidie.com. Just remember, you’ll get more responses and invitations to events if you have a clear, well-written profile with current, updated pictures. There’s a big world of swingers in Omaha and other ENM (Ethical Non-Monogamy) styles, so get out there, meet new people, and enjoy all the swinger lifestyle has to offer!

Make her cum or maybe even squirt

We have noticed over the past couple of years that more and more women in the Nebraska swingers scene love to cum so hard and fast and intensely that they will squirt. We are not here to decide what squirt is and what it is not but what we are here to discuss is that some women love to do it. Now like many other sexual acts you should always check in with your partner in the moment and see if squirting is even something they are into. Not all women love to squirt and some women who do squirt are still shy and bashful about it.

Before you start playing with her pussy

You need to discuss whether they can and do like to squirt. Make sure it is something she really wants to do and enjoys. You can really come off as a jerk if your partner at the time is like I don’t want to squirt or don’t like to and you continue to try to push the issue or even just keep doing an act to make them do it.

Depending on your play environment you might also need to be sure that you have either a protective blanket down or extra sheets and towels available. There is nothing worse that playing in a swinger lifestyle club and you make a woman squirt and just soak down the bed only to find a protector sheet or cover was not replaced properly and that room is now out of service until it can be cleaned and dried.

If you are in someone’s home you really need to be sure you protect the bed. This bed could belong to a family member or even be the primary bed the couple you are visiting sleeps in. So take a moment and if you are playing with a woman who loves to squirt you need to be sure extra precautions to protect the beds and play spaces are in place.

She Loves to Squirt or can Squirt but you are not sure how to make it happen

You might be able to make a woman have an orgasm either with your fingers or tongue or even your cock but sometimes that is not enough to make a woman squirt. There is not reason to be ashamed if you are not sure how to help a woman squirt or don’t have the finger skills or dexterity to make it happen. We have found a few offers that can help out with teaching you the best and fastest ways to make a woman squirt!

Squirting School: Famous Male Pornstar Exposes Female Ejaculation Trick

A great course put on by a male Pornstar where he gives all of his tips and tricks one how to make a woman squirt who loves to. This is a class for those of you around women who know they can squirt.

We teach squirting: For Couples wanting to get into the wet and wild fun.

This class is for men and women who want to really dive into making her squirt. This course goes over how to make a woman squirt who has maybe never done it before. It gives great tips for both men and women.

Squirting Mastery: Learn to make her squirt

This offering is more for men who know women who can and love to squirt but have maybe not been able to ever make them do it. If you want to learn how to make a woman squirt this is the class for you.

Can you be a single male in the Nebraska swinger community?

August 6, 2024
by MrPineapple

Can you be a single male in the Nebraska swinger community?

The very short and clear answer is YES. There are often a handful of very clean, good looking and respectful single men at local Nebraska swingers events. Most of them are very successful at playing and having a good time. Many of these single men are perfect for making threesome and spit roast fantasies a reality.

Now is it easy being a single male in the Nebraska swingers community? No, it actually takes some work. You are not just going to show up as a single male and get into an event and have women throwing themselves at you. It takes some work and some networking to really get into a place where you will find a steady flow of play partners and potential hookups.

If you are a single man and want to be active in the swingers lifestyle there are a few things you need to make sure you have locked down. The first is going to be your online social profiles. If you are using Fetlife, Adult Friend Finder, or Kasidie, you need to make sure you profile is not a bunch of pictures of your cock. You need to have nice pictures of yourself looking presentable and maybe a couple of pictures of you doing something you enjoy for fun. There will be plenty of time to send naughty pictures later.

Two is to make sure you have patience online. Every time you see a woman or couple posting a thirst trap you don’t need to jump into their DM’s telling them all the things you would like to do to them. Make sure you ask before you message them. Some of the best ways to accomplish first connection are to read their profile and see if they give the best way or comment on their post or photo and ask for permission to DM them. Remember the chances of you just talking with the female portion of the couple alone all the time is slim to none, odds are very high that she is also sharing with her husband. So don’t say anything in a DM that you would not say in a room full of fellow swingers. Be ready to be invited into a group chat and so fourth. It’s important for them to get to know you. This will all help to make your journey into being a single male in the swinger lifestyle much easier.

Three is to be very respectful of both her and her partner/partners. Get to know them as well, if you try and out Alpha a Stag husband or try to cuck someone not into being humiliated you will kill your chances quickly. Take a moment to learn the dynamic and what they are looking for, this will make play and encounters so much better. Be ready for meeting up for coffee or drinks or possible lifestyle party meetings.

The fourth thing I would say is be ready to be social in person. If you are hanging out at lifestyle gatherings and parties and you get to know people, you will build a positive reputation. This reputation is key to setting up play time. Oftentimes if you have a couple that just had an amazing time with you they will tell other couples looking for the same thing. Your reputation and invite list to play will grow.

You must be open to being able to communicate what you are looking for and what you are comfortable with. If you are not comfortable with a partner watching or doing things as a group then you need to be upfront about it. No one wants to have a fantasy setup to be fulfilled and have it dashed because communication broke down or was done poorly. So be ready to talk about almost any topic that can revolve around sex etc.

Doing these things and trying to be a good person in the community will hopefully help you have a lot of fun with a lot of different people. Brush up on your swinger lifestyle lingo and get out there and meet some new people and get your swing on.

Preparing for a Swinger Hotel Takeover in Nebraska

Packing Essentials: What to Bring for a Successful Event
There are, of course, a few factors that will play into what you pack and how you pack for a swinger hotel takeover in Nebraska. Most of the larger hotel parties happen in the fall, right around Halloween, and in January or February. This being said, you will want to be sure you pack to not only dress to impress but also for the weather. So, choose your outfits to make you feel sexy and keep you comfortable.

Make sure you bring comfortable shoes. You will spend a lot of time on your feet, moving around to meet and mingle with other partygoers. You will probably also spend time on the dance floor, so make sure your feet don’t wear out before the end of the night.

Be sure you have all of the toiletries you need for personal hygiene. This honestly cannot be stressed enough. Most public areas and meeting and ballroom spaces at large hotel takeovers are hot, and you can sweat quickly. Hotel soaps and shampoos are often generic and can be harsh on your skin. So, be sure you have everything you need to freshen up and smell and look your best through the night. You will also want to be able to clean up and make yourself presentable after having some sexy time.

Always have some cash on you! The bars are often flooded with people, and running credit cards often slows down the lines and liquor service. Be sure to have some cash to make everything faster and a little smoother. It will also make tipping the bar staff much easier.

Setting Expectations with Your Partner
We always recommend you take the time to meet others and sign up for a couple of swinger sites to meet other couples or singles that are active in the swinger community in Nebraska. This way, when you attend a large hotel takeover, you have people you can mingle with. But with this comes expectations.

The odds of playing at a single night or multiple night swingers hotel takeover are rather high. There are often hundreds of couples and singles all wanting to play. So, make sure you establish what sort of play you and your partner are comfortable with, as well as how you plan to have reclaim or reconnection time. You really don’t want to be having these discussions when you’re in the heat of the moment. Not being on the same page can also lead to you both being nervous, which can lead to you both not having a good time.

Understanding Event Etiquette and Rules
The rules of what is allowed in public areas of swinger hotel takeovers change all the time. Make sure you know where the rules for the event are posted and you have a contact person for any questions or concerns about the rules you might have.

Tips for Making the Most of Your Experience
The biggest piece of advice we can give here is to be sure you know your limits. There is often a lot of alcohol and drinking at these sorts of events, and it is very easy to get comfortable and a little too tipsy. You want to be sure you know your limits and stay in control of yourself. If this is your first time attending a hotel takeover in Nebraska, you will quickly learn that the community is small and first impressions are very important.

Keep an eye on the schedule of the events that will be going on. If there are classes or seminars, make sure you know what time they start and the location within the hotel.

Sign up for a lifestyle website! Don’t just rely on Facebook or Facebook Groups to connect and meet people. There are many reasons you don’t want to waste time with Facebook groups. You will actually want to use swinger lifestyle sites; you will find that most members are more serious about being in the lifestyle.

What to Expect at a Swinger Halloween Party: A Beginner’s Guide

July 12, 2024
by MrPineapple

Attending a swinger Halloween party for the first time can be an exciting yet nerve-wracking experience. These parties blend the fun and fantasy of Halloween with the open-minded, adventurous spirit of the swinger lifestyle. If you’re a newcomer, here’s a guide on what to expect, including common activities, etiquette, dress code, and tips for making the most out of your first swingers Halloween party.

Something to consider before reading too far into this article is these parties can be held in a variety of locations. Most swinger halloween parties are held in venues such as onsite play clubs, but the most common swinger halloween parties in the midwest are complete hotel takeovers.

Common Activities
Swinger Halloween parties offer a variety of activities that cater to different comfort levels and interests. As with any party, there’s plenty of mingling, dancing, and socializing. Many parties also include icebreaker games to help guests get to know each other. Expect themed games that tie into the Halloween spirit, such as costume contests or scavenger hunts with naughty twists.

Some parties may have designated play areas where consensual adult activities take place. These areas are often separated from the main party space to ensure privacy and comfort for those who choose to participate. Whether you’re just there to observe, socialize, or engage, there’s no pressure to do anything you’re not comfortable with.

Etiquette
Etiquette is crucial at swinger events to ensure everyone has a safe and enjoyable experience. Here are some key points to keep in mind:

1. Respect and Consent**: Always ask for and receive explicit consent before touching anyone. No means no, and everyone’s boundaries must be respected.

2. No Pressure**: Never pressure anyone into participating in activities they’re not comfortable with. Everyone has different comfort levels, and it’s important to respect that.

3. Confidentiality**: What happens at the party stays at the party. Respect the privacy of others and don’t share details or identities outside the event.

4. Communication**: Clear and open communication is vital. If you’re attending with a partner, discuss boundaries and expectations beforehand.

5. Hygiene**: Personal hygiene is important. Be clean and considerate of others’ comfort.

Dress Code
Costumes are a big part of swinger Halloween parties, adding an element of fun and fantasy. While the dress code can vary by event, here are some general tips:

1. **Sexy and Comfortable**: Choose a costume that makes you feel sexy yet comfortable. Whether it’s a sultry witch, a daring vampire, or a playful superhero, wear something that boosts your confidence.

2. **Theme Appropriate**: Some parties might have specific themes, so check the event details in advance to ensure your costume fits the theme.

3. **Easily Removable**: If you plan to engage in play activities, consider wearing a costume that is easy to remove.

4. **Avoid Offensive Outfits**: Steer clear of costumes that could be offensive or inappropriate. Stick to fun, flirty, and respectful choices.

Tips for Making the Most Out of the Experience

1. **Be Open-Minded**: Approach the event with an open mind. Swinger parties are about exploring fantasies and connecting with like-minded individuals.

2. **Set Boundaries**: Know your boundaries and communicate them clearly. It’s okay to step back if you feel uncomfortable at any point.

3. **Socialize**: Don’t be shy! Introduce yourself, mingle, and make new friends. Swinger parties are social events where people are open and friendly.

4. **Stay Safe**: If you decide to engage in play, practice safe sex. Use protection and be aware of your limits.

5. **Have Fun**: Most importantly, enjoy yourself. Swinger Halloween parties are designed for fun and adventure. Embrace the experience and make lasting memories.

Attending a swinger Halloween party can be a thrilling adventure. By understanding what to expect, adhering to etiquette, dressing appropriately, and following these tips, you’ll be well-prepared to enjoy the night. Whether you’re there to observe, socialize, or participate, remember that the ultimate goal is to have fun in a respectful and consensual environment.

Meeting Swinging Lifestyle Couples in Nebraska

Finding couples in the swinger lifestyle as a couple can be a very time-consuming and tedious task. But this time and effort, and even frustration, can produce some amazing relationships and lead to some very hot, sexy playtime. We are often asked what people can do to improve the odds of not only meeting another swinger couple but actually getting to playtime.

Try Some Swinger Lifestyle Websites

Between work and family commitments and even important hobbies, many of us don’t have time to spend every weekend hanging out at a local swingers club. While Omaha and Lincoln have regular swinger lifestyle meetups, these are often Fridays and Sundays and are super busy, so you don’t always get the opportunity to have a decent conversation with a couple you and your partner might be interested in.

This is why swinger lifestyle websites come in handy. You can sign up and begin messaging other couples from the comfort of your own home. You can try to get a feel for one another and see what you all have in common. There are some great swinger websites that work great for swingers in Nebraska.

Be Sure You Know What You Want Out of Swinging

To some of you, this will seem like a no-brainer, but you would be surprised how often couples really have no idea what they really want. Sure, we all know we want great sex and adventure, but many couples, especially new couples, have no idea what this should look like. So before you sign up for a swingers website, be sure you and your partner know what it is you are looking for. Here are a few examples of questions you may want answers to:

Are we looking to play together or separate?
- Are you wanting to all play together in the same room so you can scratch your voyeur and exhibitionist side? Do you enjoy watching your partner in the throes of passion? Or are you going to be more comfortable if you just come together after the play session is done?

What is allowed and what sexual or emotional acts are not allowed?
- Are you okay with your partner kissing? Is anal sex allowed? Are you both comfortable with cuddling? These are all important things you as a couple want to be on the same page about before you begin looking for other couples.

Swingers Parties or Just Casual Play?
- Something to consider as well is where and when play can happen. Be sure you know if you want to host a get-together at your own home or if you want to play at swingers parties or just get a hotel room for one-night encounters.

Build Your Swinger Website Profile Together

A huge red flag of most profiles on swingers websites are profiles that feature one partner more than the other. You will see profiles that only talk about the woman in the couple, usually about how much she likes to play with other women and how bisexual they are, and the husband’s interest and info is secondary.

Very male-centric profiles are often men who are sort of dragging their not-so-enthused partner along for the ride. Keep an eye out for red flags of them wanting to only talk to one of you and not really having their female side involved in any of the conversations. Profiles that talk about and highlight both of you are much more likely to attract like-minded couples looking for the same things you are.

Setup a Group Chat

Once you find that swinger couple that you really want to move to the next level, set up a group chat. Make sure you are all in the chat and are openly communicating. If the other couple goes low to no response or one partner is just not jumping into the conversation, you might be wasting your time and you might want to go back to the drawing board. A group chat is a great way to get everyone on the same page and keep communication open and above board. It takes a lot of pressure off our next topic.

Setup a Low-Pressure Meeting

Set up a date and time that you all can get together at a location outside of a swingers meetup or swingers club. Set up a dinner date or bowling and make it in a location where you can all actually talk to one another. Movies and live music shows make this sort of talk very difficult. Just remember family stuff and work can often mess up the best-laid plans.

We hope that these tips and tricks help you find another couple to have a lot of sexy fun with if that is what you are looking for.

A Night Out in Lincoln, Nebraska: Meeting Like-Minded Swingers

Lincoln, Nebraska, might not be the first place that comes to mind when you think of a vibrant swinger scene, but hidden beneath its serene exterior lies a community of adventurous individuals seeking like-minded partners for exciting experiences. Whether you’re a seasoned swinger or just curious about exploring a non monogamous lifestyle, Lincoln has a surprising array of opportunities to connect with others who share your interests.

Munches are informal gatherings where people interested in alternative lifestyles, including swinging, meet in a public setting like a restaurant or bar. Lincoln has a small but welcoming munch community, perfect for newcomers looking to dip their toes into the swinger scene. These events offer a relaxed atmosphere where you can chat with others, ask questions, and get to know people without any pressure to participate in more intimate activities. You can find these events here on the site or in other lifestyle groups on many lifestyle websites.

Online Communities

In today’s digital age, many swingers in Lincoln and beyond use online platforms to connect with others in the lifestyle. Websites like SwingLifestyle, Kasidie, Feeld and Adult Friend Finder are popular among Lincoln swingers for finding events, parties, and like-minded individuals. These platforms offer a discreet way to explore your interests and connect with others who share your desires.

Private Parties and Events:

For those looking to dive straight into the action, private parties and events are where you’ll find the heart of Lincoln’s swinger scene. These gatherings range from small, intimate affairs to larger, more extravagant events, offering something for everyone’s comfort level. Keep an eye out for local events advertised on online platforms or through word-of-mouth within the community.

Swinger Etiquette: Navigating the Lifestyle with Respect and Sensitivity

Swinging, a lifestyle choice involving consensual sexual activities with multiple partners has its own set of etiquette and guidelines. Whether you’re new to swinging or an experienced participant, understanding and practicing swinger etiquette is crucial for a positive and respectful experience for everyone involved.

Communication is important in the swinging community. Before engaging in any swinging activities, it’s important to have open and honest conversations with your partner and potential playmates. Discuss your boundaries, desires, and expectations to ensure that everyone is comfortable and on the same page. Respecting boundaries is essential. If someone expresses discomfort with a certain activity or request, it’s important to respect their wishes. Always ask for consent and never pressure anyone into doing something they’re not comfortable with.

Discretion is majorly important in the swinging community. Swinging is a private matter, so it’s important to respect the privacy of others. Refrain from discussing your swinging activities with those who are not part of the lifestyle, and be cautious about sharing identifying information online.

Being punctual shows respect for others’ time. If you’re running late or need to cancel, communicate this as soon as possible to minimize any inconvenience to your partners. If you cant make it or are running behind be open and honest.

If you’re attending a swinger club or event, familiarize yourself with the rules and guidelines of the venue. Respect the venue’s policies regarding dress code, behavior, and any other rules they may have in place.

Maintaining good hygiene is a sign of respect towards your partners. Shower before meeting up with others, and consider bringing along personal hygiene products such as mouthwash and deodorant to freshen up if needed.

Swinging is a diverse community, so it’s important to be open-minded and respectful towards others. Regardless of age, race, body type, or sexual orientation, treat others with kindness and respect.

practicing swinger etiquette is important for a positive and respectful swinging experience. By communicating openly, respecting boundaries, and practicing safe sex, you can ensure that everyone involved has a safe and enjoyable time in the lifestyle.

Navigating Risks in Swinger Facebook Groups: Protecting Privacy and Avoiding Account Bans

February 8, 2024
by MrPineapple

Swinger Facebook groups have become a popular platform for individuals and couples seeking connections with like-minded individuals in non-monogamous relationships. While these groups offer a supportive community for swingers, they also carry risks that can lead to Facebook account bans. Violation of Facebook’s Community Standards is a significant concern, as the platform prohibits the sharing of adult content, including nudity, sexual activity, and explicit content. Swinger groups often involve discussions and content sharing that may violate these standards, and posting or sharing explicit content, even within private groups, can lead to account bans if reported or detected by Facebook’s moderation systems.

Privacy concerns are also important to consider. Despite being private or secret, swinger groups can pose privacy risks. Members may inadvertently or intentionally share sensitive information, such as personal details or explicit photos, violating Facebook’s policies or prompting privacy complaints. Facebook’s algorithms and user reports can flag such content, resulting in account bans for privacy violations. This can also lead to shared pictures or content getting out to an employer or extended family.

Inappropriate behavior and harassment are common issues in online communities, including swinger groups. Engaging in such behavior, even within private groups, can lead to reports and account bans for violating Facebook’s policies on harassment and bullying.

Misuse of Facebook features is another risk factor. Some swinger groups may misuse Facebook features, such as events or groups, to organize or promote activities that violate Facebook’s policies, such as organizing parties or events involving explicit content or gatherings that might be illegal in some cities. This misuse can lead to account bans for violating Facebook’s terms of service.

To mitigate these risks and avoid getting your Facebook account banned or being outed to the non swinger community, while participating in swinger groups, consider reviewing and adhering to Facebook’s Community Standards, respecting privacy and consent of others in swinger groups, and reporting violations to Facebook for review. While swinger Facebook groups can offer a supportive community for those interested in non-monogamous relationships, it’s crucial to be mindful of the potential risks and use these platforms responsibly to avoid account bans and other negative consequences.

Why Nebraska Swingers Should Use Feeld

Nebraska’s swinger and non monogamy communities are as diverse as the state itself, with individuals and couples seeking safe, inclusive, and fulfilling connections. For those looking to explore their desires in a respectful and non-judgmental environment, Feeld offers a unique platform designed specifically for open-minded individuals. In this article, we’ll delve into why Nebraska swingers should consider using Feeld to enhance their swinging experience.

Understanding Feeld

Feeld is a revolutionary dating app that caters to individuals and couples interested in alternative relationships, including swingers, polyamorous individuals, and those exploring non-traditional dynamics. With its emphasis on inclusivity, privacy, and community, Feeld provides a welcoming space for Nebraska swingers to connect with like-minded individuals and explore their desires.

Why Nebraska Swingers Should Choose Feeld

Inclusive Community**: Feeld embraces diversity and welcomes individuals of all sexual orientations, gender identities, and relationship styles. Whether you’re a seasoned swinger or new to the lifestyle, Feeld provides a non-judgmental space where you can express your authentic self and connect with others who share your interests.

Privacy and Discretion: Feeld prioritizes the privacy and discretion of its users, allowing you to create a profile that reflects your preferences while maintaining control over who can see your information. This is particularly important for swingers who value their privacy and want to explore their desires discreetly.

User-Friendly Interface: The app’s intuitive design makes it easy to navigate and use, even for those new to online dating. With features such as customizable profiles, advanced search filters, and seamless messaging capabilities, Feeld offers a user-friendly experience that caters to swingers of all experience levels.

Community Engagement: Feeld offers a range of community features that allow you to connect with other Nebraska swingers, including forums, groups, and events. Whether you’re seeking advice, local recommendations, or like-minded individuals to connect with, Feeld provides a platform for meaningful engagement within the swinger community.

Safety and Security: Feeld takes safety seriously, implementing measures to verify profiles and ensure a secure environment for its users. This gives you peace of mind knowing that you’re interacting with real people who share your interests.

Premium Features: While Feeld offers a free version with basic features, you can upgrade to a premium membership for access to additional perks, such as advanced search filters, unlimited likes, and the ability to see who likes you. This can enhance your experience and increase your chances of connecting with compatible partners.

Check out our other articles on how to be safe and meet local Nebraska Swingers.

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