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Can you be a single male in the Nebraska swinger community?

August 6, 2024
by MrPineapple

Can you be a single male in the Nebraska swinger community?

The very short and clear answer is YES. There are often a handful of very clean, good looking and respectful single men at local Nebraska swingers events. Most of them are very successful at playing and having a good time. Many of these single men are perfect for making threesome and spit roast fantasies a reality.

Now is it easy being a single male in the Nebraska swingers community? No, it actually takes some work. You are not just going to show up as a single male and get into an event and have women throwing themselves at you. It takes some work and some networking to really get into a place where you will find a steady flow of play partners and potential hookups.

If you are a single man and want to be active in the swingers lifestyle there are a few things you need to make sure you have locked down. The first is going to be your online social profiles. If you are using Fetlife, Adult Friend Finder, or Kasidie, you need to make sure you profile is not a bunch of pictures of your cock. You need to have nice pictures of yourself looking presentable and maybe a couple of pictures of you doing something you enjoy for fun. There will be plenty of time to send naughty pictures later.

Two is to make sure you have patience online. Every time you see a woman or couple posting a thirst trap you don’t need to jump into their DM’s telling them all the things you would like to do to them. Make sure you ask before you message them. Some of the best ways to accomplish first connection are to read their profile and see if they give the best way or comment on their post or photo and ask for permission to DM them. Remember the chances of you just talking with the female portion of the couple alone all the time is slim to none, odds are very high that she is also sharing with her husband. So don’t say anything in a DM that you would not say in a room full of fellow swingers. Be ready to be invited into a group chat and so fourth. It’s important for them to get to know you. This will all help to make your journey into being a single male in the swinger lifestyle much easier.

Three is to be very respectful of both her and her partner/partners. Get to know them as well, if you try and out Alpha a Stag husband or try to cuck someone not into being humiliated you will kill your chances quickly. Take a moment to learn the dynamic and what they are looking for, this will make play and encounters so much better. Be ready for meeting up for coffee or drinks or possible lifestyle party meetings.

The fourth thing I would say is be ready to be social in person. If you are hanging out at lifestyle gatherings and parties and you get to know people, you will build a positive reputation. This reputation is key to setting up play time. Oftentimes if you have a couple that just had an amazing time with you they will tell other couples looking for the same thing. Your reputation and invite list to play will grow.

You must be open to being able to communicate what you are looking for and what you are comfortable with. If you are not comfortable with a partner watching or doing things as a group then you need to be upfront about it. No one wants to have a fantasy setup to be fulfilled and have it dashed because communication broke down or was done poorly. So be ready to talk about almost any topic that can revolve around sex etc.

Doing these things and trying to be a good person in the community will hopefully help you have a lot of fun with a lot of different people. Brush up on your swinger lifestyle lingo and get out there and meet some new people and get your swing on.

Lifeinstyle The 90’s Meet and Greet

July 24, 2024
by MrPineapple

The crew here at Nebraska Swingers and Swinger411 are packing up and heading the road and heading to St Louis Missouri for the Lifeinstyle 90’s themed Meet and Greet on August 9th 2024. We are all really excited to mix and mingle and make new friends. When you are in the swinger lifestyle it’s always a good idea to get out of your local community and meet new people from other cities. If being in the lifestyle is how some people keep things fresh and new, there is nothing more fresh and new than making friends a couple hundred miles away.

From what we have seen so far Lifeinstyle really knows how to throw an event and bring people together. This meet and greet is being hosted by Purple Temptress and Purple Temptress Husband. These two are well known for being amazing hosts in the midwest swinger lifestyle as well as being swinger content creators.

There is still time to sign up and get in on the action, Head over to the Lifeinstyle website and get registered ASAP. If you are a local Nebrsaka Swinger and you are heading down as well be sure and follow our main twitter of Swinger411 as well as the Facebook page. Sometimes knowing people when you are traveling out of town can help break the ice and make things allot more relaxed and fun.

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Emerald City Halloween Hotel Takeover Salina Kansas

July 16, 2024
by MrPineapple

The 4th of July is over and the end of the summer events are booking out or happening as you read this, so now it’s time my swinger friends to start thinking about the swingers Halloween parties. Halloween is one of the busiest times of the year for swingers, between house parties and hotel takeovers there is something almost every weekend in the Midwest.

Well here we are out of the gate with an Amazing swingers event in Salina Kansas. The Emerald City Halloween Hotel takeover is set to be an amazing two day event. Starting on October 25th to Sunday October 27th, You can get full information at swingict.com. There are a couple of groups coming together to put on this epic event.

This party boasts some rather great activities such as the entire hotel being BYOB, as well as a Dungeon for some sexy BDSM play. I think our team here is most excited about the access to the clothing optional indoor pool. There are still items being added to the schedule so make sure you check on swingict.com or become part of the Infamous Entertainment Events community on Kasidie.

So start planning your naughty Dorothy or flying monkey outfits now, this party is going to be one that is talked about in the Midwest swinger community for a while. So do not waste time and get your tickets and your rooms booked ASAP. While you don’t need to have a room to attend this event, we all know that swinger hotel takeover parties are far more fun if you have a place to either have some quiet time or to guarantee that you have a place to play. The rooms are sporting pillow top beds, LED televisions and refrigerators. This may sound rather standard to some of you but having a hotel that gives you a killer room to party in can take a swinger party to the next level.

As any large swingers weekend should have there will be a sexy and kinky vendors fair offering a variety of sexy and kinky toys. Be sure to stop in and take care of some amazing brands and get some great quality toys and naughty gifts. So be sure and leave some space open in your suitcases for all the epic gear you will bring home.

If you have any questions about this event you can contact the organizers at swingict contact page as well as on Kasidie. Be sure and reach out and network with others so you have the best time you can possibly have at a hotel takeover of this size.

What to Expect at a Swinger Halloween Party: A Beginner’s Guide

July 12, 2024
by MrPineapple

Attending a swinger Halloween party for the first time can be an exciting yet nerve-wracking experience. These parties blend the fun and fantasy of Halloween with the open-minded, adventurous spirit of the swinger lifestyle. If you’re a newcomer, here’s a guide on what to expect, including common activities, etiquette, dress code, and tips for making the most out of your first swingers Halloween party.

Something to consider before reading too far into this article is these parties can be held in a variety of locations. Most swinger halloween parties are held in venues such as onsite play clubs, but the most common swinger halloween parties in the midwest are complete hotel takeovers.

Common Activities
Swinger Halloween parties offer a variety of activities that cater to different comfort levels and interests. As with any party, there’s plenty of mingling, dancing, and socializing. Many parties also include icebreaker games to help guests get to know each other. Expect themed games that tie into the Halloween spirit, such as costume contests or scavenger hunts with naughty twists.

Some parties may have designated play areas where consensual adult activities take place. These areas are often separated from the main party space to ensure privacy and comfort for those who choose to participate. Whether you’re just there to observe, socialize, or engage, there’s no pressure to do anything you’re not comfortable with.

Etiquette
Etiquette is crucial at swinger events to ensure everyone has a safe and enjoyable experience. Here are some key points to keep in mind:

1. Respect and Consent**: Always ask for and receive explicit consent before touching anyone. No means no, and everyone’s boundaries must be respected.

2. No Pressure**: Never pressure anyone into participating in activities they’re not comfortable with. Everyone has different comfort levels, and it’s important to respect that.

3. Confidentiality**: What happens at the party stays at the party. Respect the privacy of others and don’t share details or identities outside the event.

4. Communication**: Clear and open communication is vital. If you’re attending with a partner, discuss boundaries and expectations beforehand.

5. Hygiene**: Personal hygiene is important. Be clean and considerate of others’ comfort.

Dress Code
Costumes are a big part of swinger Halloween parties, adding an element of fun and fantasy. While the dress code can vary by event, here are some general tips:

1. **Sexy and Comfortable**: Choose a costume that makes you feel sexy yet comfortable. Whether it’s a sultry witch, a daring vampire, or a playful superhero, wear something that boosts your confidence.

2. **Theme Appropriate**: Some parties might have specific themes, so check the event details in advance to ensure your costume fits the theme.

3. **Easily Removable**: If you plan to engage in play activities, consider wearing a costume that is easy to remove.

4. **Avoid Offensive Outfits**: Steer clear of costumes that could be offensive or inappropriate. Stick to fun, flirty, and respectful choices.

Tips for Making the Most Out of the Experience

1. **Be Open-Minded**: Approach the event with an open mind. Swinger parties are about exploring fantasies and connecting with like-minded individuals.

2. **Set Boundaries**: Know your boundaries and communicate them clearly. It’s okay to step back if you feel uncomfortable at any point.

3. **Socialize**: Don’t be shy! Introduce yourself, mingle, and make new friends. Swinger parties are social events where people are open and friendly.

4. **Stay Safe**: If you decide to engage in play, practice safe sex. Use protection and be aware of your limits.

5. **Have Fun**: Most importantly, enjoy yourself. Swinger Halloween parties are designed for fun and adventure. Embrace the experience and make lasting memories.

Attending a swinger Halloween party can be a thrilling adventure. By understanding what to expect, adhering to etiquette, dressing appropriately, and following these tips, you’ll be well-prepared to enjoy the night. Whether you’re there to observe, socialize, or participate, remember that the ultimate goal is to have fun in a respectful and consensual environment.

Meeting Swinging Lifestyle Couples in Nebraska

Finding couples in the swinger lifestyle as a couple can be a very time-consuming and tedious task. But this time and effort, and even frustration, can produce some amazing relationships and lead to some very hot, sexy playtime. We are often asked what people can do to improve the odds of not only meeting another swinger couple but actually getting to playtime.

Try Some Swinger Lifestyle Websites

Between work and family commitments and even important hobbies, many of us don’t have time to spend every weekend hanging out at a local swingers club. While Omaha and Lincoln have regular swinger lifestyle meetups, these are often Fridays and Sundays and are super busy, so you don’t always get the opportunity to have a decent conversation with a couple you and your partner might be interested in.

This is why swinger lifestyle websites come in handy. You can sign up and begin messaging other couples from the comfort of your own home. You can try to get a feel for one another and see what you all have in common. There are some great swinger websites that work great for swingers in Nebraska.

Be Sure You Know What You Want Out of Swinging

To some of you, this will seem like a no-brainer, but you would be surprised how often couples really have no idea what they really want. Sure, we all know we want great sex and adventure, but many couples, especially new couples, have no idea what this should look like. So before you sign up for a swingers website, be sure you and your partner know what it is you are looking for. Here are a few examples of questions you may want answers to:

Are we looking to play together or separate?
- Are you wanting to all play together in the same room so you can scratch your voyeur and exhibitionist side? Do you enjoy watching your partner in the throes of passion? Or are you going to be more comfortable if you just come together after the play session is done?

What is allowed and what sexual or emotional acts are not allowed?
- Are you okay with your partner kissing? Is anal sex allowed? Are you both comfortable with cuddling? These are all important things you as a couple want to be on the same page about before you begin looking for other couples.

Swingers Parties or Just Casual Play?
- Something to consider as well is where and when play can happen. Be sure you know if you want to host a get-together at your own home or if you want to play at swingers parties or just get a hotel room for one-night encounters.

Build Your Swinger Website Profile Together

A huge red flag of most profiles on swingers websites are profiles that feature one partner more than the other. You will see profiles that only talk about the woman in the couple, usually about how much she likes to play with other women and how bisexual they are, and the husband’s interest and info is secondary.

Very male-centric profiles are often men who are sort of dragging their not-so-enthused partner along for the ride. Keep an eye out for red flags of them wanting to only talk to one of you and not really having their female side involved in any of the conversations. Profiles that talk about and highlight both of you are much more likely to attract like-minded couples looking for the same things you are.

Setup a Group Chat

Once you find that swinger couple that you really want to move to the next level, set up a group chat. Make sure you are all in the chat and are openly communicating. If the other couple goes low to no response or one partner is just not jumping into the conversation, you might be wasting your time and you might want to go back to the drawing board. A group chat is a great way to get everyone on the same page and keep communication open and above board. It takes a lot of pressure off our next topic.

Setup a Low-Pressure Meeting

Set up a date and time that you all can get together at a location outside of a swingers meetup or swingers club. Set up a dinner date or bowling and make it in a location where you can all actually talk to one another. Movies and live music shows make this sort of talk very difficult. Just remember family stuff and work can often mess up the best-laid plans.

We hope that these tips and tricks help you find another couple to have a lot of sexy fun with if that is what you are looking for.

Finding Swingers in Small Rural Nebraska Towns: Tips and Strategies

July 1, 2024
by MrPineapple

Recently, we’ve received numerous inquiries from individuals living in small rural towns about how to find swingers safely within their local communities. Finding swingers in a small town indeed presents a unique set of challenges. Small communities are often tightly knit, and the potential for judgment or gossip is a real concern. For many, the solution has been to travel to larger cities like Omaha, Lincoln, or Kearney, but this isn’t always feasible more than a few times a year.

However, there are effective strategies for those looking to connect with like-minded individuals closer to home. One of the most successful methods we’ve found is using online platforms designed for swingers, such as Kasidie. This platform has proven to be highly effective for networking with other swingers, especially for those in small Nebraska communities.

Kasidie offers several advantages that make it a preferred choice among swingers. One of the key features is its user verification process, which helps build trust within the community. Users can be confident that they are interacting with real people, which significantly reduces the risk of encountering fake profiles or scams. Additionally, Kasidie is active in the swinger community, participating in events both large and small across the country. This visibility and involvement help to foster a sense of community and trust among its users.

For individuals in small towns, using Kasidie can be a game-changer. The response rate on the platform has been excellent, and the rate of successful meetups has been higher than on many other sites. This is particularly important for those who may only have a limited number of opportunities each year to travel to larger cities for swinger events.

To get started, here are a few tips for using Kasidie and other online swinger platforms effectively:

1. **Create a Detailed Profile**: Make sure your profile is complete and provides a good sense of who you are and what you’re looking for. Include clear, recent photos and be honest about your interests and boundaries.

2. **Engage Actively**: Don’t just wait for others to contact you. Reach out to potential matches and engage in conversations. The more active you are, the more likely you are to find compatible partners.

3. **Attend Local Events**: Even in small towns, there may be local swinger events or meetups. Kasidie often lists these events, and attending them can help you connect with others in your area.

4. **Practice Discretion**: In small communities, discretion is key. Use private messaging to communicate and arrange meetups, and be mindful of how you discuss your lifestyle with others.

5. **Verify and Vet**: Take advantage of Kasidie’s verification methods to ensure the people you’re interacting with are genuine. This adds an extra layer of security and peace of mind.

6. **Network with Nearby Communities**: If your town is particularly small, consider broadening your search to include nearby towns. This can increase your chances of finding compatible partners without the need for frequent long-distance travel.

By following these tips and utilizing platforms like Kasidie, individuals in small rural towns can safely and effectively connect with the swinger community. The challenges of living in a tightly knit community can be mitigated by leveraging online resources and practicing discretion. Whether you’re new to the lifestyle or looking to expand your network, there are viable options for finding like-minded individuals closer to home.

Pornhub to Block Nebraska

June 30, 2024
by MrPineapple

Nebraska is about to have something in common with Texas. On July 15th, 2024, Pornhub will start blocking visitors from the state of Nebraska. This action follows the recent passing of LB1092, a law that allows the state to target adult websites deemed insufficient in verifying the age of their users.

Under this new law, Nebraska requires adults who wish to access adult content to provide a biometric scan of their face and match it with a copy of their driver’s license or ID. While some might think such measures are unlikely, the law passed smoothly through the unicameral legislature, and Governor Jim Pillen had no issue signing it into law. This law will become effective on July 15th.

At first glance, it may seem like no big deal; people can use VPNs or other methods to access sites that block states instead of complying. However, many adult websites, to avoid prosecution, will block IP addresses from VPN providers.

While protecting minors from accessing adult content is crucial, these measures should not compromise people’s privacy. Third-party age verification methods could be exploited, potentially leading to blackmail. If you doubt the possibility of a data breach, consider the Ashley Madison incident, which ruined many lives.

More adult websites will be joining Pornhub in blocking any state that passes laws like this. So don’t be surprised if you can’t reach some of your favorite adult sites in the near future. This could begin to affect sites that swingers use to meet other swingers. Many of our swinger community sites allow for the upload and sharing of naughty adult photos. So don’t be surprised if, in the future, you will need to provide your driver’s license for verification.

For more information about LB1092, you can read a detailed article on the Nebraska Examiner’s website.

Five other states will be enacting similar laws. To learn more about the efforts to fight these laws, visit the Free Speech Coalition’s website Here.

Support groups advocating for our rights include:

– The Free Speech Coalition
– National Coalition for Sexual Freedom
– Electronic Frontier Foundation

Feel free to contact Governor Jim Pillen and your local candidates in the state unicameral to express your concerns.

National Swingers Weekend Playboy Mansion Party

May 25, 2024
by MrPineapple

Just when I thought the team over at Lifeinstyle could not make National Swingers Weekend hotter and packed full of my sexy time, they hit us with a Playboy mansion-themed party. Friday, July 26th. It’s time to bust out the silk smoking jacket and slippers and get ready to watch some sexy bunnies walk around doing what bunnies do.

This is just one of the many parties that will be going on during National Swingers Weekend. This is going to be the hottest Midwest swingers event of the summer. You are not going to want to waste time before you get tickets for this event. You can always get tickets at lifeinstylestl.com.

This is going to be the 5th anniversary of National Swingers Weekend. This event is shaping up to be one that those with a little experience and those with years of experience in the lifestyle will enjoy. As with any other major event, we recommend you join lifeinstylestl.com and start looking to network with other couples attending the event so upon arrival you know at least one couple to help you dive into the summer fun.

You can follow Lifeinstyle on X @lifeinstylestl.

I will, of course, keep bringing you updates and info as they become available so of course, check back here often for updates!

Beyond Cornfields: The Vibrant Life of Midwest Swingers

When one thinks of the Midwest, images of vast cornfields, cozy small towns, and traditional values often come to mind. However, nestled within this seemingly conventional landscape lies a vibrant and growing community that might surprise many: the Midwest swingers.

Embracing Diversity and Openness

Midwest swingers are breaking the mold of typical Midwestern stereotypes by fostering a culture of diversity and openness. Contrary to popular belief, the swinging community here is not just about clandestine meetings; it’s about building a supportive network where couples can explore their relationships in a safe and consensual environment. This openness has led to the rise of numerous clubs, private parties, and events specifically tailored for swingers.

The Social Scene

Swinging in the Midwest isn’t confined to the shadows. Many communities are open and welcoming, organizing regular meet-ups, themed parties, and even weekend retreats that attract couples from all walks of life. These gatherings are often well-organized, with a focus on safety and discretion, ensuring a comfortable environment for everyone involved.

Why the Midwest?

You might wonder why the Midwest has become a hotspot for swingers. Part of the appeal lies in the Midwestern sense of community and hospitality. People here are known for their friendliness and approachability, which translates well into the swingers’ lifestyle. Additionally, the privacy afforded by more rural and suburban areas provides the perfect backdrop for those looking to explore this lifestyle discreetly.

Challenges and Misconceptions

Despite its popularity, the swinging lifestyle in the Midwest faces challenges, particularly when it comes to misconceptions. Many outsiders view swinging through a lens of judgment and skepticism, not understanding the mutual respect and consent involved in these relationships. Swingers often work hard to combat these stereotypes, emphasizing the positive aspects of their lifestyle, such as improved communication in relationships and a strong sense of community.

The Future of Swinging in the Midwest

As the community grows, so does the public’s curiosity and acceptance. With more informative resources and open dialogue, swingers in the Midwest are optimistic about the future. They continue to advocate for their right to personal freedom and relationship exploration, hoping to one day be as recognized and respected as any other social group.

In conclusion, the swinging scene in the Midwest is much more than a novelty hidden beyond the cornfields; it’s a vibrant part of many people’s lives. It offers a unique perspective on relationships and community, proving that there’s always more than meets the eye, even in the most unexpected places.

Lifeinstyle #NSW2024 NATIONAL SWINGERS WEEKEND at Lake of the Ozarks

May 11, 2024
by MrPineapple

Looking for something spicy and exciting this summer? The swinger lifestyle party of the year could be closer than you think! The team at Life In Style is hosting another National Swingers Weekend event at Lake of the Ozarks. This is shaping up to be the Midwest party of the summer, if not the party of the year.

The party is running from July 23-28, 2024. For more information, check out Life In Style or follow them on Twitter @lifeinstylestl. The Midwest has some amazing things coming up this summer, so stay tuned for more!