Can you be a single male in the Nebraska swinger community?
The very short and clear answer is YES. There are often a handful of very clean, good looking and respectful single men at local Nebraska swingers events. Most of them are very successful at playing and having a good time. Many of these single men are perfect for making threesome and spit roast fantasies a reality.
Now is it easy being a single male in the Nebraska swingers community? No, it actually takes some work. You are not just going to show up as a single male and get into an event and have women throwing themselves at you. It takes some work and some networking to really get into a place where you will find a steady flow of play partners and potential hookups.
If you are a single man and want to be active in the swingers lifestyle there are a few things you need to make sure you have locked down. The first is going to be your online social profiles. If you are using Fetlife, Adult Friend Finder, or Kasidie, you need to make sure you profile is not a bunch of pictures of your cock. You need to have nice pictures of yourself looking presentable and maybe a couple of pictures of you doing something you enjoy for fun. There will be plenty of time to send naughty pictures later.
Two is to make sure you have patience online. Every time you see a woman or couple posting a thirst trap you don’t need to jump into their DM’s telling them all the things you would like to do to them. Make sure you ask before you message them. Some of the best ways to accomplish first connection are to read their profile and see if they give the best way or comment on their post or photo and ask for permission to DM them. Remember the chances of you just talking with the female portion of the couple alone all the time is slim to none, odds are very high that she is also sharing with her husband. So don’t say anything in a DM that you would not say in a room full of fellow swingers. Be ready to be invited into a group chat and so fourth. It’s important for them to get to know you. This will all help to make your journey into being a single male in the swinger lifestyle much easier.
Three is to be very respectful of both her and her partner/partners. Get to know them as well, if you try and out Alpha a Stag husband or try to cuck someone not into being humiliated you will kill your chances quickly. Take a moment to learn the dynamic and what they are looking for, this will make play and encounters so much better. Be ready for meeting up for coffee or drinks or possible lifestyle party meetings.
The fourth thing I would say is be ready to be social in person. If you are hanging out at lifestyle gatherings and parties and you get to know people, you will build a positive reputation. This reputation is key to setting up play time. Oftentimes if you have a couple that just had an amazing time with you they will tell other couples looking for the same thing. Your reputation and invite list to play will grow.
You must be open to being able to communicate what you are looking for and what you are comfortable with. If you are not comfortable with a partner watching or doing things as a group then you need to be upfront about it. No one wants to have a fantasy setup to be fulfilled and have it dashed because communication broke down or was done poorly. So be ready to talk about almost any topic that can revolve around sex etc.
Doing these things and trying to be a good person in the community will hopefully help you have a lot of fun with a lot of different people. Brush up on your swinger lifestyle lingo and get out there and meet some new people and get your swing on.
