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Finding Swinger Lifestyle Couples in Omaha

Are you looking to meet swinger lifestyle couples in Omaha but aren’t sure where to start? Whether you’re new to the lifestyle and feeling a bit overwhelmed, or you’ve been in it for a while and are eager to meet new people, finding couples to connect with can sometimes feel like a daunting task. The fear of rejection or the frustration of being ghosted or flaked on can make the process even more challenging. In this post, we’ll share practical tips and insider advice on how to meet like-minded couples in Omaha, so you can dive into this exciting world with confidence and start making meaningful connections right away.

Find Omaha Swingers Online

If you’ve read any of our previous posts, you know that we’re big fans of starting your search for other swingers online. It’s an easy way for you and your partner to look for other couples—or maybe even singles—from the comfort of your own home. For some great tips, check out our post “Meeting Swinging Lifestyle Couples in Nebraska,” which offers advice on creating profiles and getting ready to meet others in this amazing lifestyle.

Spend Some Time at a Local Omaha Swinger Hangout

It’s no secret that in Omaha, there’s a bar where many in the swinger lifestyle gather. This place has a low-key atmosphere and often hosts live music and some very nice adult entertainment. It’s well worth checking out The American Dream. Opinions may vary on whether it’s the best spot, but history shows it’s Omaha’s longest-running lifestyle-friendly venue. Couples from all over Nebraska come here to meet others. While the bar itself isn’t a swingers bar, it’s run by someone who organizes large hotel takeovers. So if you find a couple you want to meet for the first time, we highly recommend taking them to The American Dream Bar.

Find Local Swingers Gatherings in Omaha

As of the time of this article, we highly recommend you check back here often for updates on Omaha Swingers Events and keep an eye on our friends over at Keep It Swinger Simple. They host a majority of their swinger lifestyle events in the Omaha metro area. Of course, you can always look online for other events as well. There are many other smaller swinger lifestyle groups in and around Omaha, so keep your eyes on sites like Fetlife or Kasidie.com. Just remember, you’ll get more responses and invitations to events if you have a clear, well-written profile with current, updated pictures. There’s a big world of swingers in Omaha and other ENM (Ethical Non-Monogamy) styles, so get out there, meet new people, and enjoy all the swinger lifestyle has to offer!

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Make her cum or maybe even squirt

We have noticed over the past couple of years that more and more women in the Nebraska swingers scene love to cum so hard and fast and intensely that they will squirt.  We are not here to decide what squirt is and what it is not but what we are here to discuss is that some women love to do it. Now like many other sexual acts you should always check in with your partner in the moment and see if squirting is even something they are into.  Not all women love to squirt and some women who do squirt are still shy and bashful about it.  

Before you start playing with her pussy 

You need to discuss whether they can and do like to squirt. Make sure it is something she really wants to do and enjoys. You can really come off as a jerk if your partner at the time is like I don’t want to squirt or don’t like to and you continue to try to push the issue or even just keep doing an act to make them do it. 

Depending on your play environment you might also need to be sure that you have either a protective blanket down or extra sheets and towels available.  There is nothing worse that playing in a swinger lifestyle club and you make a woman squirt and just soak down the bed only to find a protector sheet or cover was not replaced properly and that room is now out of service until it can be cleaned and dried.  

If you are in someone’s home you really need to be sure you protect the bed. This bed could belong to a family member or even be the primary bed the couple you are visiting sleeps in.  So take a moment and if you are playing with a woman who loves to squirt you need to be sure extra precautions to protect the beds and play spaces are in place. 

She Loves to Squirt or can Squirt but you are not sure how to make it happen 

You might be able to make a woman have an orgasm either with your fingers or tongue or even your cock but sometimes that is not enough to make a woman squirt.  There is not reason to be ashamed if you are not sure how to help a woman squirt or don’t have the finger skills or dexterity to make it happen.  We have found a few offers that can help out with teaching you the best and fastest ways to make a woman squirt! 

Squirting School: Famous Male Pornstar Exposes Female Ejaculation Trick

A great course put on by a male Pornstar where he gives all of his tips and tricks one how to make a woman squirt who loves to.  This is a class for those of you around women who know they can squirt. 

We teach squirting: For Couples wanting to get into the wet and wild fun. 

This class is for men and women who want to really dive into making her squirt.  This course goes over how to make a woman squirt who has maybe never done it before.  It gives great tips for both men and women. 

Squirting Mastery: Learn to make her squirt 

This offering is more for men who know women who can and love to squirt but have maybe not been able to ever make them do it.   If you want to learn how to make a woman squirt this is the class for you.

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Can you be a single male in the Nebraska swinger community?

Can you be a single male in the Nebraska swinger community?

The very short and clear answer is YES.  There are often a handful of very clean, good looking and respectful single men at local Nebraska swingers events. Most of them are very successful at playing and having a good time. Many of these single men are perfect for making threesome and spit roast fantasies a reality. 

Now is it easy being a single male in the Nebraska swingers community? No, it actually takes some work.  You are not just going to show up as a single male and get into an event and have women throwing themselves at you.  It takes some work and some networking to really get into a place where you will find a steady flow of play partners and potential hookups. 

If you are a single man and want to be active in the swingers lifestyle there are a few things you need to make sure you have locked down.  The first is going to be your online social profiles. If you are using Fetlife, Adult Friend Finder, or Kasidie, you need to make sure you profile is not a bunch of pictures of your cock.  You need to have nice pictures of yourself looking presentable and maybe a couple of pictures of you doing something you enjoy for fun. There will be plenty of time to send naughty pictures later. 

Two is to make sure you have patience online.  Every time you see a woman or couple posting a thirst trap you don’t need to jump into their DM’s telling them all the things you would like to do to them. Make sure you ask before you message them. Some of the best ways to accomplish first connection are to read their profile and see if they give the best way or comment on their post or photo and ask for permission to DM them. Remember  the chances of you just talking with the female portion of the couple alone all the time is slim to none, odds are very high that she is also sharing with her husband.  So don’t say anything in a DM that you would not say in a room full of fellow swingers.  Be ready to be invited into a group chat and so fourth. It’s important for them to get to know you. This will all help to make your journey into being a single male in the swinger lifestyle much easier. 

Three is to be very respectful of both her and her partner/partners.  Get to know them as well, if you try and out Alpha a Stag husband or try to cuck someone not into being humiliated you will kill your chances quickly.  Take a moment to learn the dynamic and what they are looking for, this will make play and encounters so much better.  Be ready for meeting up for coffee or drinks or possible lifestyle party meetings. 

The fourth thing I would say is be ready to be social in person. If you are hanging out at lifestyle gatherings and parties and you get to know people, you will build a positive reputation.  This reputation is key to setting up play time.  Oftentimes if you have a couple that just had an amazing time with you they will tell other couples looking for the same thing. Your reputation and invite list to play will grow.  

You must be open to being able to communicate what you are looking for and what you are comfortable with.  If you are not comfortable with a partner watching or doing things as a group then you need to be upfront about it.  No one wants to have a fantasy setup to be fulfilled and have it dashed because communication broke down or was done poorly.  So be ready to talk about almost any topic that can revolve around sex etc. 

Doing these things and trying to be a good person in the community will hopefully help you have a lot of fun with a lot of different people.  Brush up on your swinger lifestyle lingo and get out there and meet some new people and get your swing on. 

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Hallowswing 2024

Hallowswing 2024

The largest swinger Halloween party in Nebraska

It’s true Hallowswing  will be happening again in 2024, it will be on October 19th to be exact!  The party was announced by its organizer almost a month ago but we have been holding off on posting about it since there has been no way to buy tickets yet.  So if you are interested in Hallowswing 2024 we suggest you keep a close eye on https://keepitswingersimple.com

The location of Hallowswing is back at an old famous swinger friendly location that has brought back some very lifestyle friendly management. The new hotel owners have done some major updates to the hotel including adding card access to each floor.  We think this is great for security but is also going to make jumping from floor to floor a little interesting.  If you have never been to a Hallowswing before then you are in for a high energy wild party. 

This year Grunge Pop will be back playing the main ballroom and of course there will be a DJ on during the breaks.  The hallway crawls will be coming back with ads, another sort of fun and flavor to the party.  The big push this year is commUNITY… The organizer of the party is trying to push for all aspects of the livestyle to come together and enjoy the party.  No super separating rules or labels.  Every one from every local swingers group is welcome and we should all just have a good time. 

The hotel from what we have been told is sitting around 80% booked and climbing.  If you are one of the people who was able to get a room, keep in mind you must still pay for a ticket to the event.  Ticket prices to the event have not been posted yet.  But once we see that there is ticket pricing available we will post a follow up.  If you are the organizer of a local swingers group we suggest you get a hold of the organizers at K.I.S.S  and see if you can get a block of rooms together and be sure you have contact cards and information about your community or group. 

You can go ahead and book a room here 

Just keep in mind a booked room will not guarantee you a ticket into the event.  So we suggest keeping an eye out for pricing.  Also it is possible Friday night could be amazing as well. The hotel has offered to hold booking rooms for Friday night until a couple of weeks before the party. So there is a very high chance of some great naughty fun coming the night before the party. 

If you have never taken part in a full wild and crazy hotel takeover we suggest you read our article on attending a swinger hotel takeover. Make sure you have everything you need packed and everything organized for a long weekend of swinger lifestyle fun. While Hallowswing has a mixed history with many in the Nebraska swinger lifestyle, you should still go and see it for yourself. At the end of the day we are all adults and we can all make the decisions we feel are best for us.

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